"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To everyone I sent the book on Cold Reading...

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Well I've sent a lot of copies of that book out to people a few days ago.

So what do you guys all think?

Was it worth your time?

Did it inspire you to read up more on the subject?

Have you been able to try any of it out?

Let's hear your feedback!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being in High School, it didn't seem to apply much to me. It was mostly just lists of traits that certain groups have, which I found somewhat useless. Ah well, a good read nonetheless.
 

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Well the idea behind the traits is that in one category they were Barnum statements which means statements that apply to almost everyone and YET the person who is being told this thinks its pretty unique to them.

The other lists were groups, meaning that people who have some traits also tend to have the others, so if you can identify which category a person goes into you can tell them other stuff about them that isn't related to your observations but still accurate.

So what did the rest of you think? I sent the book out to at least 15+ people, c'mon guys! The least you can do is share your feedback.

I agree though that the book lacked specific scripts or phrases or tricks, it was really just a general overview with some basic info.

I am still waiting for Ian Rowland's book which is the definitive guide to cold reading according virtually every reviewer of it and it DOES include SPECIFIC tricks and phrases to use. I'll let you guys know how it is when I get it.
 

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It was a pretty interesting read. I'm the guy who had to fake knowing a chick, remember? That plan fell through, so I didn't get to test it out yet. I'll get around to it.
 

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Thanks for sending that to me. I've been super super busy this week so I haven't had time to read it. Hopefully I can cram it in this weekend. I'll post here when I do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I suppose it's useful if you want to do parlor tricks like tarot cards or palm reading, but it's really geared to the person that wants to make a living doing it. Overall, too much trouble to learn just to impress chicks. At least for me. Of course I did the 10 minute read/scan since I've been so busy.

But thanks for the book! It was worth a look.
 

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IJD,

I haven't got your book, but i know cold reading is handy and easy to learn. Sure you can use it as a gimmick with palmestry etc but I've found it very good if coupled with the -I have an intuition about you- type of track.

Well worth reading up on.
 

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Looks good. I haven't had time to read it yet I will try to read it later though.
 

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Wouldn't open? Try to get the latest version of adobe. Or was the file corrupt? I can resend it if you want...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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