"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To do it or not to do it, that is the question?

Masculinity

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I work at the admissions office of my college. It is now the summer and we get flooded, yes...flooded with people and about 10% of them are extremely attractive chicks. I'm talking about 8.5, and 9's. I even spotted a dime once. Some of them are even foreign which is a turn on for me. I work in the front counter and I help people out with computers, give them direction and advice on what to do around the college, so I have these opportunities to help people and work 1 on 1 for a few minutes with these babes.

The thing is, I'm at work and I'm debating whether I should or not. People at the office like me, but I don't want some girl to say I tried to hit on her and then get my ears pulled by my boss if you know what I mean. Am I being too paranoid and wasting great opportunities to meet chicks while in a position with high status (I know just by the glances I get and it feels good, haha)? Or am I taking it the right way and keeping work and chicks apart?

I feel like I'm missing out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd go for it, but unfortunately it's going to have to be one of those situations where you're gauging her reaction as you go. If she's clearly digging you, by all means go ahead. But you can't be as forward as you'd be in a normal setting. You don't want to be kicked off the job, that would really suck.

Also, I wonder what your campus is like. At my college I pretty reliably bump into people all the time, so I'm fine with leaving something open ended (no number) and then running into the girl at the campus bar and starting where I left off... "Hey, I helped you out the other day, didn't I?"
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't let girls come between you and your paper. Get to that money then worry about the girls. Nothing wrong with flirting but don't go overboard.
 

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this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
 

oneboy21

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I would say go for it
If i were you, i would concentrate on foreign chicks, since they don;'t know much around they are easy.
if you offer then little help than you are in, it always works trust me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thevilittletroll said:
this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
This.

My tactic at work (which is a university) is to flirt with them and if I get IOIs back, I ask them if they can meet me outside for a few minutes, that's when I number-close them.

Just don't turn into this guy.
 

Masculinity

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Scoooore!

I got two numbers in the last two days. One at my university and another one at the college where I work. One is an HB9 and another one is an HB8.5. Woot woot! Thanks for the feedback guys! I'll update on what happens with these broads.
 
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