"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To do it or not to do it, that is the question?

Masculinity

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I work at the admissions office of my college. It is now the summer and we get flooded, yes...flooded with people and about 10% of them are extremely attractive chicks. I'm talking about 8.5, and 9's. I even spotted a dime once. Some of them are even foreign which is a turn on for me. I work in the front counter and I help people out with computers, give them direction and advice on what to do around the college, so I have these opportunities to help people and work 1 on 1 for a few minutes with these babes.

The thing is, I'm at work and I'm debating whether I should or not. People at the office like me, but I don't want some girl to say I tried to hit on her and then get my ears pulled by my boss if you know what I mean. Am I being too paranoid and wasting great opportunities to meet chicks while in a position with high status (I know just by the glances I get and it feels good, haha)? Or am I taking it the right way and keeping work and chicks apart?

I feel like I'm missing out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd go for it, but unfortunately it's going to have to be one of those situations where you're gauging her reaction as you go. If she's clearly digging you, by all means go ahead. But you can't be as forward as you'd be in a normal setting. You don't want to be kicked off the job, that would really suck.

Also, I wonder what your campus is like. At my college I pretty reliably bump into people all the time, so I'm fine with leaving something open ended (no number) and then running into the girl at the campus bar and starting where I left off... "Hey, I helped you out the other day, didn't I?"
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't let girls come between you and your paper. Get to that money then worry about the girls. Nothing wrong with flirting but don't go overboard.
 

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this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
 

oneboy21

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I would say go for it
If i were you, i would concentrate on foreign chicks, since they don;'t know much around they are easy.
if you offer then little help than you are in, it always works trust me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thevilittletroll said:
this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
This.

My tactic at work (which is a university) is to flirt with them and if I get IOIs back, I ask them if they can meet me outside for a few minutes, that's when I number-close them.

Just don't turn into this guy.
 

Masculinity

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Scoooore!

I got two numbers in the last two days. One at my university and another one at the college where I work. One is an HB9 and another one is an HB8.5. Woot woot! Thanks for the feedback guys! I'll update on what happens with these broads.
 
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