"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To do it or not to do it, that is the question?

Masculinity

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I work at the admissions office of my college. It is now the summer and we get flooded, yes...flooded with people and about 10% of them are extremely attractive chicks. I'm talking about 8.5, and 9's. I even spotted a dime once. Some of them are even foreign which is a turn on for me. I work in the front counter and I help people out with computers, give them direction and advice on what to do around the college, so I have these opportunities to help people and work 1 on 1 for a few minutes with these babes.

The thing is, I'm at work and I'm debating whether I should or not. People at the office like me, but I don't want some girl to say I tried to hit on her and then get my ears pulled by my boss if you know what I mean. Am I being too paranoid and wasting great opportunities to meet chicks while in a position with high status (I know just by the glances I get and it feels good, haha)? Or am I taking it the right way and keeping work and chicks apart?

I feel like I'm missing out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd go for it, but unfortunately it's going to have to be one of those situations where you're gauging her reaction as you go. If she's clearly digging you, by all means go ahead. But you can't be as forward as you'd be in a normal setting. You don't want to be kicked off the job, that would really suck.

Also, I wonder what your campus is like. At my college I pretty reliably bump into people all the time, so I'm fine with leaving something open ended (no number) and then running into the girl at the campus bar and starting where I left off... "Hey, I helped you out the other day, didn't I?"
 

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Don't let girls come between you and your paper. Get to that money then worry about the girls. Nothing wrong with flirting but don't go overboard.
 

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this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
 

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I would say go for it
If i were you, i would concentrate on foreign chicks, since they don;'t know much around they are easy.
if you offer then little help than you are in, it always works trust me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thevilittletroll said:
this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
This.

My tactic at work (which is a university) is to flirt with them and if I get IOIs back, I ask them if they can meet me outside for a few minutes, that's when I number-close them.

Just don't turn into this guy.
 

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Scoooore!

I got two numbers in the last two days. One at my university and another one at the college where I work. One is an HB9 and another one is an HB8.5. Woot woot! Thanks for the feedback guys! I'll update on what happens with these broads.
 
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