"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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to cut or bulk?

lemieux66

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I'm 5 10, 155 lbs.

Now, overall, I'd say I'm skinny. But I do have a bit of a gut.

I'm not sure if I should be cutting or bulking.

Help.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JohnnyVegas

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It's all about body fat, not weight. You want to be down around 10% body fat to cut. There are ways to guesstimate your body fat, the best one to do involves some calipers. Also, you obviously need the muscle to cut. If you aren't of decent size in terms of muscle then you want to bulk up.
 

Just-In

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Wow! Isn't 125lbs a lil too light for a 5"10?

I'm 5"5 and I weight 121lbs. I got some lean muscles from cardio workouts though. On my way to bulking up and about to ditch most of the cardio.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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