"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To chase or not to chase...

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hey guys,

started chatting to my ex again after her bf left overseas, she appeared to be keen to get back together with me. we talked and met occasionaly, ended up kissing last time we got together. next day she texts saying she doesnt think we should have kissed and just to remain friends. we keep texting, yet she still gives off signals (ending each text with "xoxo", talking about us in the future). we are both travelling to america together in june. im keen to be in a relationship with her and she appears to want the same thing. i seem to be the one calling her all the time and trying to make a date to meet. she wasnt available last week so i told her to just text me this week when she was available to get together. should i follow this up or just wait to see if she calls to know if she really is interested in me?

thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so you reckon i should just walk away? no doubt shell "check up on me" after a couple of weeks...:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait. And while you are waiting go get some dates with other women.
 
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