"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To chase or not to chase...

ManUnited01

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hey guys,

started chatting to my ex again after her bf left overseas, she appeared to be keen to get back together with me. we talked and met occasionaly, ended up kissing last time we got together. next day she texts saying she doesnt think we should have kissed and just to remain friends. we keep texting, yet she still gives off signals (ending each text with "xoxo", talking about us in the future). we are both travelling to america together in june. im keen to be in a relationship with her and she appears to want the same thing. i seem to be the one calling her all the time and trying to make a date to meet. she wasnt available last week so i told her to just text me this week when she was available to get together. should i follow this up or just wait to see if she calls to know if she really is interested in me?

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ManUnited01

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so you reckon i should just walk away? no doubt shell "check up on me" after a couple of weeks...:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wait. And while you are waiting go get some dates with other women.
 
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