"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey guys,

started chatting to my ex again after her bf left overseas, she appeared to be keen to get back together with me. we talked and met occasionaly, ended up kissing last time we got together. next day she texts saying she doesnt think we should have kissed and just to remain friends. we keep texting, yet she still gives off signals (ending each text with "xoxo", talking about us in the future). we are both travelling to america together in june. im keen to be in a relationship with her and she appears to want the same thing. i seem to be the one calling her all the time and trying to make a date to meet. she wasnt available last week so i told her to just text me this week when she was available to get together. should i follow this up or just wait to see if she calls to know if she really is interested in me?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so you reckon i should just walk away? no doubt shell "check up on me" after a couple of weeks...:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wait. And while you are waiting go get some dates with other women.
 
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