"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
To Call or Text?
- Thread starter dmpitman
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Do you know her ?
Is she your girlfriend or you just met her recently on bar and got her number ?
Give us some info ? how the hell we are supposed to know whats best if we dont know whats that about .
Btw wrong forum . It should be posted on DJ DISCUSSION . DJ TIPS is only for giving tips .
I can see you are new on this forum so i would recommand firstly to read RULES first .
Than read the DJ BIBLE please . Its great for newbies , it helps alot . And most of the answers you're seeking you'll find there .
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CLICK HERE TO READ DJ BIBLE
Have fun here on SO SUAVE
. CHEERSPRMoon
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
But read the Bible before you start posting about this. This should be clear.
This is what you do next: Call/Text, set up date, take her out, make a move. See DJ Bible for more info.
I'm expecting a FR soon!