"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To Call or Text?

dmpitman

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So, what's the verdict?

Call a girl or text her?

I say call; it seems that it would leave a deeper impression, or a number of reasons.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just so suave

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What do you want to speak to her about?
 

Daddy The Pimp

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give us some more info . Why do you want to call her ?
Do you know her ?
Is she your girlfriend or you just met her recently on bar and got her number ?
Give us some info ? how the hell we are supposed to know whats best if we dont know whats that about .

Btw wrong forum . It should be posted on DJ DISCUSSION . DJ TIPS is only for giving tips .

I can see you are new on this forum so i would recommand firstly to read RULES first .

Than read the DJ BIBLE please . Its great for newbies , it helps alot . And most of the answers you're seeking you'll find there .

CLICK HERE TO READ RULES

CLICK HERE TO READ DJ BIBLE

Have fun here on SO SUAVE :D . CHEERS
 

DoctorLW

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That depends on the context of what you are doing of course.

I'd say calling is preferable in situations where you are setting something up... and texting is better when you are just shooting the shyt.
 

PRMoon

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From what I can tell, they're both the same. In fact one can lead to the other so you should really have no preferance. Just get in touch...that's the main battle to be fought here. Don't worry about the technicalities of how but you do want to strike and strike now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ARrocket

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Depends really. A girl you just met? Well, it depends on what you wanna do. I would call, flirt a little (couple minutes), then set up a date. But, you could also text and right away set up a date. It just depends on your style....
 

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Do what you feel like doing.

But read the Bible before you start posting about this. This should be clear.

This is what you do next: Call/Text, set up date, take her out, make a move. See DJ Bible for more info.

I'm expecting a FR soon!
 

Birdem

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Calling is better. I would only text a girl if I don't feel like listening to her voice. Calling is better because it's easier to be understood over the phone than on a text message. It also gives the girl time to think when you text them which is not good. I would rather call, but when i text I make it brief as possible.
 
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