"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To Call or Text?
- Thread starter dmpitman
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Do you know her ?
Is she your girlfriend or you just met her recently on bar and got her number ?
Give us some info ? how the hell we are supposed to know whats best if we dont know whats that about .
Btw wrong forum . It should be posted on DJ DISCUSSION . DJ TIPS is only for giving tips .
I can see you are new on this forum so i would recommand firstly to read RULES first .
Than read the DJ BIBLE please . Its great for newbies , it helps alot . And most of the answers you're seeking you'll find there .
CLICK HERE TO READ RULES
CLICK HERE TO READ DJ BIBLE
Have fun here on SO SUAVE
. CHEERSPRMoon
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
But read the Bible before you start posting about this. This should be clear.
This is what you do next: Call/Text, set up date, take her out, make a move. See DJ Bible for more info.
I'm expecting a FR soon!