"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To bang another mans girl or not to bang another mans girl

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I don't know if shakespeare said it. What's the consensus? Would you do it? HAVE you done it?

Is it every man for himself? Or are you packing morals? Hit me with it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In these cases ask your self: "Would another man have the same dilemma?"
- No!

It's every man for himself.
Also, if his GF wants to cheat, she's the problem not you.
 

Robert28

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Depends. I’ll give you two scenarios I’ve experienced.

#1 My best friend was dating this beautiful girl and I got to know her because we all hung out a lot before I went off to college. They broke up or something while i was away. Here comes the weird part. She went to college 3 hours from mine, oneday a guy that lived on my hall comes to my room and says “hey there’s a girl downstairs that’s looking for you”. I thought it was someone from a class, nope, it was my best friends ex! She showed up at my college and I was beyond shocked. We went out for a drink and then it became clear why she was there, she wanted to fvck. I couldn’t do it, not to my best friend. She was one of the hottest girls I’ve ever turned down and I do regret it but I know it was the right thing to do. Me and the guy are still friends.

#2. this older women I met out at a bar and she had a boyfriend she lived with. She says he was a pos but you know how that goes when women say that. She wanted to have sex with me so I always invited her over to my house. She couldn’t ever come at night or dress up or anything. He eventually found out and called me but I just played it off like I didn’t know what he was talking about.lol
 

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Depends. I’ll give you two scenarios I’ve experienced.

#1 My best friend was dating this beautiful girl and I got to know her because we all hung out a lot before I went off to college. They broke up or something while i was away. Here comes the weird part. She went to college 3 hours from mine, oneday a guy that lived on my hall comes to my room and says “hey there’s a girl downstairs that’s looking for you”. I thought it was someone from a class, nope, it was my best friends ex! She showed up at my college and I was beyond shocked. We went out for a drink and then it became clear why she was there, she wanted to fvck. I couldn’t do it, not to my best friend. She was one of the hottest girls I’ve ever turned down and I do regret it but I know it was the right thing to do. Me and the guy are still friends.
This is an exception. Best friends ex's are off limits. Bro code
 

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The bro code is the worst thing that ever happened to my game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never pursue taken women. It shows weakness and a scavenger mentality. Real men hunt their own game, not poach someone else's.

Assuming you're attractive and have options you're not faced with this dilemma. Why take a single mom when you can choose a childless woman?
 

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The bro code is the worst thing that ever happened to my game.
I somehow never had the urge to bang my friend's ex. No matter how hot she was. I didn't see them as potential s*x targets.

Never pursue taken women. It shows weakness and a scavenger mentality. Real men hunt their own game, not poach someone else's.

Assuming you're attractive and have options you're not faced with this dilemma. Why take a single mom when you can choose a childless woman?
Have you ever banged married or single mom lacking s*x?
These women are animals in bed.
Did it twice. Best s*x of my life.
We're talking here about s*x not relationship.
 

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Never pursue taken women. It shows weakness and a scavenger mentality. Real men hunt their own game, not poach someone else's.

Assuming you're attractive and have options you're not faced with this dilemma. Why take a single mom when you can choose a childless woman?
Because childless women are becoming a rare commodity.
 

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Aren't we just fueling the cheating behavior of women if we bang them knowing they have men?

I think it's just a win situation for them and personally wouldn't want to give them that satisfaction.
 

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She's not his: it's just his turn.

Having said that, don't do it. Not worth the emotional BS. You should try to keep your life free from discord... cr@p like this just adds to hysterical nonsense.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she tells me she has a boyfriend or husband before we bang, then I wouldn't do it.
In most cases, they don't tell me until AFTER we bang.
Sometimes I don't even find out until I stop talking to them.
 

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I don't know if shakespeare said it. What's the consensus? Would you do it? HAVE you done it?

Is it every man for himself? Or are you packing morals? Hit me with it
Years ago, I met this girl at a blues club. Talking was easy and there was some chemistry between us. However, she said she was married and her husband was coming home from his military deployment later in the week. Before the night was over she invited back to her place.

I just couldn’t do it.

-Augustus-
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If I was single and didn’t know the other man. Sure why not. Friends wife GF or Ex. No way. Same goes for co workers. Nope
 

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I probably wouldn't do it (although I have in the past), and it's not because my moral compass is against it or anything.. it's just way more drama than I wanna deal with. Single bitches are already enough to deal with on their own. I think you'd have to be really desperate for pvssy to bang another dudes chick, because you should have at least 10 lined up in the chamber before then, so you don't even need to get your hands dirty.. however, the times I did do it, I chose my battles carefully, and knew 100% I could beat the boyfriend in a fight if it ever came to it. This was in my younger 20s though.. I'm 30 and more mature now.. my vote is no, I don't like drama.
 

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I don't do it.

Imo it's dishonourable as a man to be sneaking around banging some sloot who's "conmited" to another guy, there's plenty of single women out there

I have told girls before that if they left the guy we could talk, sometimes it works out sometimes not, but I always set my stall out with women that I don't go for sneaky, deceptive behaviour, I do not tolerate it, knowing that they are less likely to bring it into your life
 

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I was accused of some blue pilled dork of trying to get with his girl a few years back. Had never seen or heard of him or her. Turned out another friend of mine had hacked my social media and sent both him and her messages in my name. This dork cornered me in an alley and wanted to fight. I had no clue who the fvck he even was.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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