Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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to approach or not to approach...

ilikecharlene

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There is this woman at work who is not my immediate type exactly (I like southern Asian/Indian women mainly, but she is black) but she has a curvy body and killer boobs. I only would date a woman with defined boobs, and I'm too minds as to whether approach her or not. She is not my type, but her boobage is mesmerising. lol...

Of course, the cliche of "don't **** where you eat" applies as it is work, but we don't work in the same department, and I alternate between offices anyhow.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexLefty

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Try not to make excuses. Just approach
 

BigSmooth

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Approach first, think second!

Do it...NOW.
 
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