"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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to approach or not to approach...

ilikecharlene

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There is this woman at work who is not my immediate type exactly (I like southern Asian/Indian women mainly, but she is black) but she has a curvy body and killer boobs. I only would date a woman with defined boobs, and I'm too minds as to whether approach her or not. She is not my type, but her boobage is mesmerising. lol...

Of course, the cliche of "don't **** where you eat" applies as it is work, but we don't work in the same department, and I alternate between offices anyhow.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexLefty

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Try not to make excuses. Just approach
 

BigSmooth

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Approach first, think second!

Do it...NOW.
 
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