"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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to approach or not to approach...

ilikecharlene

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There is this woman at work who is not my immediate type exactly (I like southern Asian/Indian women mainly, but she is black) but she has a curvy body and killer boobs. I only would date a woman with defined boobs, and I'm too minds as to whether approach her or not. She is not my type, but her boobage is mesmerising. lol...

Of course, the cliche of "don't **** where you eat" applies as it is work, but we don't work in the same department, and I alternate between offices anyhow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AlexLefty

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Try not to make excuses. Just approach
 

BigSmooth

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Approach first, think second!

Do it...NOW.
 
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