belividere
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I have every intention too. Thanks
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Very insightfulOriginally posted by Mac_Laaarry
:crackup: This stuff is hilarious, too many people post on topics that they are ignorant of. First lets break it down. Of the 300 million people in the US 200mil + are white or of european descent 36mil are hispanic 35 mil black or of african descent and it breaks down from there. To add the Latino and Black populations are higly concentrated in certain areas (Ny Cali Ga etc) which means unless youre in these areas u dont see many ethnicities or atleast the best of. Now what people tend to forget is we are not far removed from the days of segregation, what that means is that most of our views of the race issues come from parents or influential people in our lives and the media, not from personal experience. Anywhere u go in the US there will be plenty of white people because they are by far the majority. Over the next few decades this topic will start to become irrelevant, as the last true racists die off and communities become more mixed people will see things for the truth. Its all about Attraction, so please please white guys stop telling me that a black guy cant get hot white women cause ive had several and i see i all dA time, and please please black guys stop trying to prove yourself to these white guys u cant convice one with words they must see and with that they may still deny. Stop trying to prove yourself and concetrate on whats importand u her and the experiences u share. White women are not that hot compared to women of any ethnicity.but i still, lov em the same :crackup:
Originally posted by Silverback82
I have a serious quetion. I'm curious how do these white girls parents react? Especially the father. You won't find too many white fathers that will be happy about their daughter dating a black guy.
once again people feel the need to get overly sensitiveOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
okay, now you seem to just be digressing to find anything negative to post about.
Since when was this post about the reaction of the fathers?? Some fathers won't and some will, doest that answer your question?
Is that your way of saying "Oh sh!t I don't have a comeback"?Originally posted by Silverback82
once again people feel the need to get overly sensitive![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
so much for the "good conversation" you wantedOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
Is that your way of saying "Oh sh!t I don't have a comeback"?
once again my question remains unanswered. And instead you digress w/ childish little insults. It's cool though.Originally posted by Silverback82
so much for the "good conversation" you wanted
sorry for hurting your feelings
Childish insults? Where is the name calling? What is your question?Originally posted by DJ_in_making
once again my question remains unanswered. And instead you digress w/ childish little insults. It's cool though.
thank you so much. with this i can relax. have a nice day and live your life well(even though i know u are).Originally posted by belividere
I really wonder why any of you guys bother with this arguement. It seems to always dominate a spot on the first page of the discussion forum. Pointless arguements that never really go anywhere.
Anyways, I'm as white as it gets but am happy that I was brought up in a racially diverse area. Some of my best friends/wings are black, white, south american, and european. All of us can/have grabbed gorgeous women of all descents. It has never been about proving a point between any of us it has been about feeling attraction and running with it. I've dated girls from all backgrounds and will continue to do so. My friends will most likely do the same until we all settle down. I have no idea why people still harbor any interracial stigma but I have seen both sides of this street. I've gotten sh1t for dating black girls from black guys and my friends the opposite. People are close minded and I just ignore those who are. I have to many things going on in my own life then to worry about what other people think.
I agree!Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
EXACTLY.
That is why I thought the entire thread was stupid. All it is trying to show is that black men can get white girls. Trying to prove something to people you don't even know and should have to prove nothing.
Sickening.
The fact is, some people will never want to believe black men can get beautiful white girls, and when it does happen openly in the media, Taye Diggs, Kobe Bryant, Seal amoung others...its some sort of fluke or logical explanation.
Attraction is attraction. People are people.
Dont generalize races. Come on guys, grow up!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.