belividere
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I have every intention too. Thanks
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Very insightfulOriginally posted by Mac_Laaarry
:crackup: This stuff is hilarious, too many people post on topics that they are ignorant of. First lets break it down. Of the 300 million people in the US 200mil + are white or of european descent 36mil are hispanic 35 mil black or of african descent and it breaks down from there. To add the Latino and Black populations are higly concentrated in certain areas (Ny Cali Ga etc) which means unless youre in these areas u dont see many ethnicities or atleast the best of. Now what people tend to forget is we are not far removed from the days of segregation, what that means is that most of our views of the race issues come from parents or influential people in our lives and the media, not from personal experience. Anywhere u go in the US there will be plenty of white people because they are by far the majority. Over the next few decades this topic will start to become irrelevant, as the last true racists die off and communities become more mixed people will see things for the truth. Its all about Attraction, so please please white guys stop telling me that a black guy cant get hot white women cause ive had several and i see i all dA time, and please please black guys stop trying to prove yourself to these white guys u cant convice one with words they must see and with that they may still deny. Stop trying to prove yourself and concetrate on whats importand u her and the experiences u share. White women are not that hot compared to women of any ethnicity.but i still, lov em the same :crackup:
Originally posted by Silverback82
I have a serious quetion. I'm curious how do these white girls parents react? Especially the father. You won't find too many white fathers that will be happy about their daughter dating a black guy.
once again people feel the need to get overly sensitiveOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
okay, now you seem to just be digressing to find anything negative to post about.
Since when was this post about the reaction of the fathers?? Some fathers won't and some will, doest that answer your question?
Is that your way of saying "Oh sh!t I don't have a comeback"?Originally posted by Silverback82
once again people feel the need to get overly sensitive![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
so much for the "good conversation" you wantedOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
Is that your way of saying "Oh sh!t I don't have a comeback"?
once again my question remains unanswered. And instead you digress w/ childish little insults. It's cool though.Originally posted by Silverback82
so much for the "good conversation" you wanted
sorry for hurting your feelings
Childish insults? Where is the name calling? What is your question?Originally posted by DJ_in_making
once again my question remains unanswered. And instead you digress w/ childish little insults. It's cool though.
thank you so much. with this i can relax. have a nice day and live your life well(even though i know u are).Originally posted by belividere
I really wonder why any of you guys bother with this arguement. It seems to always dominate a spot on the first page of the discussion forum. Pointless arguements that never really go anywhere.
Anyways, I'm as white as it gets but am happy that I was brought up in a racially diverse area. Some of my best friends/wings are black, white, south american, and european. All of us can/have grabbed gorgeous women of all descents. It has never been about proving a point between any of us it has been about feeling attraction and running with it. I've dated girls from all backgrounds and will continue to do so. My friends will most likely do the same until we all settle down. I have no idea why people still harbor any interracial stigma but I have seen both sides of this street. I've gotten sh1t for dating black girls from black guys and my friends the opposite. People are close minded and I just ignore those who are. I have to many things going on in my own life then to worry about what other people think.
I agree!Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
EXACTLY.
That is why I thought the entire thread was stupid. All it is trying to show is that black men can get white girls. Trying to prove something to people you don't even know and should have to prove nothing.
Sickening.
The fact is, some people will never want to believe black men can get beautiful white girls, and when it does happen openly in the media, Taye Diggs, Kobe Bryant, Seal amoung others...its some sort of fluke or logical explanation.
Attraction is attraction. People are people.
Dont generalize races. Come on guys, grow up!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.