"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To all those who think online dating is a magic bullet

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Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.
You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
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We would all still be walking on all fours if we never tried the things we arent good at
 
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if u have game in real life..you will probably pass up on online dating
 
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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
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This has been discussed over and over. Do a search, what you're saying is just parroting what many others have said (some within the past 1-2 days).
 
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