"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To all those who think online dating is a magic bullet

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Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.
You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
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We would all still be walking on all fours if we never tried the things we arent good at
 
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if u have game in real life..you will probably pass up on online dating
 
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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
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This has been discussed over and over. Do a search, what you're saying is just parroting what many others have said (some within the past 1-2 days).
 
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