Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To all those who think online dating is a magic bullet

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Luveno

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Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game. THink about it, if you have no game in reality, then when you meet your internet girl, you won't be able to hold the rapport that you could when you weren't face to face.
If you do have game, the internet is basically just a catalogue for guys who want a good looking girl. You look through it, pick a girl, get her info, meet , and take it from there.
Its not rocket science.
You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
We would all still be walking on all fours if we never tried the things we arent good at
 

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if u have game in real life..you will probably pass up on online dating
 

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Originally posted by Luveno
Internet dating is stupid if you have no real life game.

You must have the confidence to build rapport with people in reality if you ever want online dating to be effective.
This has been discussed over and over. Do a search, what you're saying is just parroting what many others have said (some within the past 1-2 days).
 
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