European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Let me know guys, how do you study? whats your motivation, and how many hour a day do you read?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:6 hrs per day, 4 days a week. Cram before the exam. Not the best student. DMAA helps.
Dust 2 Dust said:I have a masters degree and I never studied except 1-2 days before an exam. Here's what I usually did:
1. Take really good notes in class. The notes will often be the backbone of most exams especially if it's a subject in the social sciences such as History.
2. Skim the textbook and memorize the major points of each chapter. They're typically bolded in the textbook and emphasized on the last page of each chapter in a summary section if you're an undergrad. Reading everything word for word in the book is too time consuming and can give you information overload.
3. Get some caffeine. I would drink a 2 liter of root beer while studying to help me stay awake.
4. Study in 30 minute intervals and take a 5-10 minute break every half hour.
5. Masturbate before studying. This will calm you down and prevent your mind from wandering while you study.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ProDJ26 said:From my experience most of my instructors usually say things like "Its probably a good idea to write this down" or "That might be nice to know" or something similar. Simply amazes me how many people still fail. One last note is when the instructor ask the class a question and nobody answers that same question is asked again on an exam.
You can also try www.khanacademy.org
its a great site for studying with multiple subjects. If your like me and study at the last minute or have a hard time the site breaks it all down into lamens terms
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That's the hardest class you can take.JohnChops said:Wow I wish I saw this before I took my physics exam gonna have to use it for next tim e
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.