European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Let me know guys, how do you study? whats your motivation, and how many hour a day do you read?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:6 hrs per day, 4 days a week. Cram before the exam. Not the best student. DMAA helps.
Dust 2 Dust said:I have a masters degree and I never studied except 1-2 days before an exam. Here's what I usually did:
1. Take really good notes in class. The notes will often be the backbone of most exams especially if it's a subject in the social sciences such as History.
2. Skim the textbook and memorize the major points of each chapter. They're typically bolded in the textbook and emphasized on the last page of each chapter in a summary section if you're an undergrad. Reading everything word for word in the book is too time consuming and can give you information overload.
3. Get some caffeine. I would drink a 2 liter of root beer while studying to help me stay awake.
4. Study in 30 minute intervals and take a 5-10 minute break every half hour.
5. Masturbate before studying. This will calm you down and prevent your mind from wandering while you study.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ProDJ26 said:From my experience most of my instructors usually say things like "Its probably a good idea to write this down" or "That might be nice to know" or something similar. Simply amazes me how many people still fail. One last note is when the instructor ask the class a question and nobody answers that same question is asked again on an exam.
You can also try www.khanacademy.org
its a great site for studying with multiple subjects. If your like me and study at the last minute or have a hard time the site breaks it all down into lamens terms
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That's the hardest class you can take.JohnChops said:Wow I wish I saw this before I took my physics exam gonna have to use it for next tim e
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.