to all potential DJ's

[xiola]

granted I"ve only been here a short time but it seems as if most of the threads (at least on this forum) relate to the same thing. Eveyone is all worried about the steps, mechanics, thought process, what have you instead of what is really important. Relaxing and going with the flow.

I'm not a DJ by any means but I do go out on dates and am friends with many women and I do that by being myself, being friendly to them, listen to what they say, basically, just being a cool guy that they would want to hang out with and someone that they would tell their friends that I'm cool when I'm not around.

Basically, just quit nick picking every situation, quit waiting for the next step in the "directions", and just play it by ear. 90% of the time, the clues are right in front of you.

lets see if I get flamed for this

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[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by xiola

lets see if I get flamed for this

b

Do you WANT to get flamed for it?

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

I really feel like these guys who make the threads you're talking about are never going to be successful with women.

meeting people is fun. so many people on this board miss that fact. You should not have a dozen things running through your mind when talking to somebody new.

 

[xiola]

^ not really

i just want to see if anyone else has been getting this same vibe as i

* edit, this is twice i've been hijacked for replying to endoftimes posts

b

 

[klaz]

I'm not a DJ by any means but I do go out on dates and am friends with many women and I do that by being myself, being friendly to them, listen to what they say, basically, just being a cool guy that they would want to hang out with and someone that they would tell their friends that I'm cool when I'm not around.

Dude. you're more advanced than I am. But all I can say is what has worked for me. relax. have fun. Sure we're here to have sex, BUT theres no point havin sex unless you're havin fun gettin it.

 

[bootlegger]

shut up.

 

[seize_the_pattern]

"oh you know ... I think Im getting sex and all that but, you know, everyone does that stuff and I dont want to be like everyone else"

 

[FlawlessBadBoy]

LMAO