"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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granted I"ve only been here a short time but it seems as if most of the threads (at least on this forum) relate to the same thing. Eveyone is all worried about the steps, mechanics, thought process, what have you instead of what is really important. Relaxing and going with the flow.

I'm not a DJ by any means but I do go out on dates and am friends with many women and I do that by being myself, being friendly to them, listen to what they say, basically, just being a cool guy that they would want to hang out with and someone that they would tell their friends that I'm cool when I'm not around.

Basically, just quit nick picking every situation, quit waiting for the next step in the "directions", and just play it by ear. 90% of the time, the clues are right in front of you.

lets see if I get flamed for this :D

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I really feel like these guys who make the threads you're talking about are never going to be successful with women.

meeting people is fun. so many people on this board miss that fact. You should not have a dozen things running through your mind when talking to somebody new.
 
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^ not really:eek:

i just want to see if anyone else has been getting this same vibe as i

* edit, this is twice i've been hijacked for replying to endoftimes posts :D

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I'm not a DJ by any means but I do go out on dates and am friends with many women and I do that by being myself, being friendly to them, listen to what they say, basically, just being a cool guy that they would want to hang out with and someone that they would tell their friends that I'm cool when I'm not around.
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Dude. you're more advanced than I am. But all I can say is what has worked for me. relax. have fun. Sure we're here to have sex, BUT theres no point havin sex unless you're havin fun gettin it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"oh you know ... I think Im getting sex and all that but, you know, everyone does that stuff and I dont want to be like everyone else"

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