Been dating this early 30s Latin American woman for over 2 months. We've been seeing each other twice a week pretty much since we started dating. Had sex early on and it was really, really good. Though I had problems cumming with her (due to porn/masturbation technique which I have now curbed heavily) and this deeply upset her pretty early on in our dating. She started pulling back sexually for this reason.
We've had no talk of exclusivity and she has not brought it up, though to this point it hasn't come off as her dating anyone else. So I schedule a date with her for this weekend and she seems flaky, the day of she says she would prefer it if we met the next day instead and says she "doesn't know why, I would just prefer it." so she doesn't really give me a reason. I tell her I possibly can't meet the next day due to my schedule (the truth), but we will see that day/night. She doesn't really seem to care too much
To me, this sounds like she just rescheduled our prime-time Saturday date to go out with a new dude and/or has lost interest in me. Would you accept the next day date if you were me and my schedule allowed it or would you simply cancel and start pulling back?
Just curious for other's opinions on this specific situation, and yada yada I know I should be dating multiple women.
We've had no talk of exclusivity and she has not brought it up, though to this point it hasn't come off as her dating anyone else. So I schedule a date with her for this weekend and she seems flaky, the day of she says she would prefer it if we met the next day instead and says she "doesn't know why, I would just prefer it." so she doesn't really give me a reason. I tell her I possibly can't meet the next day due to my schedule (the truth), but we will see that day/night. She doesn't really seem to care too much
To me, this sounds like she just rescheduled our prime-time Saturday date to go out with a new dude and/or has lost interest in me. Would you accept the next day date if you were me and my schedule allowed it or would you simply cancel and start pulling back?
Just curious for other's opinions on this specific situation, and yada yada I know I should be dating multiple women.
