"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey guys I’m a 33 year old guy that’s been dating a virgin Latina 23 year old. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon. Im debating whether or not to break up with her. I’m tired of waiting for sex. I get blowies from her but she doesn’t let me finish in her mouth. I’ve been bummed out at this situation I’m in.
Should I accept the loss and move on. Or rough it out till she puts out , she has said that by the end of this year she’ll be ready , but I doubt that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey guys I’m a 33 year old guy that’s been dating a virgin Latina 23 year old. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon. Im debating whether or not to break up with her. I’m tired of waiting for sex. I get blowies from her but she doesn’t let me finish in her mouth. I’ve been bummed out at this situation I’m in.
Should I accept the loss and move on. Or rough it out till she puts out , she has said that by the end of this year she’ll be ready , but I doubt that.
Is it important to you that she is a virgin? Because Odds are that you wont find another one. I think if you didnt care about it, you would have monkey-branched to another girl a long time ago.
 

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Hey guys I’m a 33 year old guy that’s been dating a virgin Latina 23 year old. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon. Im debating whether or not to break up with her. I’m tired of waiting for sex. I get blowies from her but she doesn’t let me finish in her mouth. I’ve been bummed out at this situation I’m in.
Should I accept the loss and move on. Or rough it out till she puts out , she has said that by the end of this year she’ll be ready , but I doubt that.
Just let her know that you have physical needs and until she is willing to meet them you will need to date other women as well. Essentially tell her she is being downgraded in status.

She may dump you but whatever. You waited many months too long. IMO she isn't into you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey guys I’m a 33 year old guy that’s been dating a virgin Latina 23 year old. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon. Im debating whether or not to break up with her. I’m tired of waiting for sex. I get blowies from her but she doesn’t let me finish in her mouth. I’ve been bummed out at this situation I’m in.
Should I accept the loss and move on. Or rough it out till she puts out , she has said that by the end of this year she’ll be ready , but I doubt that.
That doesn't sound right at all. A virgin who gives blow jobs but avoids penetrative sex for a year now? What possible explanation does she have for this behaviour? :rolleyes:
 

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Shes waiting for something better and offering the bare minimum to keep you around.
Drop your fishing rod in other ponds and you wont care about the wait with the abundance.
If she comes around with the honey pot, it’s a bonus, but focus your efforts elsewhere.
 

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You ain’t turning her stove hot enough. If a woman doesn’t put out after 2 months and that’s pushing it then she either fvcking someone else, she doesn’t see you as a potential sex god, or idling for a better option to give you the “I need some time” treatment.
Virgin or not cut your losses and hit the road. Women are dispensable and money makes the world go round.
 

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She bring up wanting to be married too? What other hoops is she making you jump thru in order to access her sacred velvet love box?

If I'm not fuhking some girl, then I'm not in a relationship with her. She is just a friend.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AureliusMaximus

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We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon
ONE YEAR? :rolleyes:
Like wtf?

Dude she doesn´t (highly likely) desire you enough.
Only exception would be she was brought up in monastery with only nuns and she is extremely devoted to her faith of Christ....
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But is less likely too. But hey they say unicorns exist too, they are just.. Rare, right?

Desire is bytch because you cannot bargain for it. Its either there or it isn´t.

There is millions on girls our there; there is absolutely no logical reason or argument that justifies that you would convert yourself to a monk for years just one girl.

Spin the wheel instead and get rid of your huge blueballs..... :devil:
 
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Hey guys I’m a 33 year old guy that’s been dating a virgin Latina 23 year old. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary soon. Im debating whether or not to break up with her. I’m tired of waiting for sex. I get blowies from her but she doesn’t let me finish in her mouth. I’ve been bummed out at this situation I’m in.
Should I accept the loss and move on. Or rough it out till she puts out , she has said that by the end of this year she’ll be ready , but I doubt that.

Is Anal an option?
 

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No, the reality is that you fvck (way) below average women on tinder and you think you are a pimp. You're like 28-29 but you would still be virgin if old didnt exist. You have no balls or/and you're you ugly/skinny/whatever to talk to women irl.
Thats whats up with you.
Youre in no position to give advice.
Who hurt you bro?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Youre in no position to give advice.
To be fair, he didnt give any advice. Maybe he was proyecting or being blackpill, or something; but I wouldnt call whatever he posted in this thread "giving advice".
 

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One year is not normal. I think @Stuffnu hit the nail the head: She doesnt consider him "worthy" and is keeping him around with blowies until someone "better" comes along.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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