hungry_american
Don Juan
Im bored with my style what do you guys suggest... i was thinking AE or Abercrombie orrr hollister but i kinda dont like the look of their stuff i normaly just stick to Tshirts and trackjackets like oniel and hurley
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tired of my style help
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jake-inator
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nice teddy bear
You look like ur trying REALLY hard to look cool. I see more of a problem in that than your clothes.
You look like ur trying REALLY hard to look cool. I see more of a problem in that than your clothes.
hungry_american
Don Juan
haha that bear was from an ex and i re oginized my room and set it there debating wether or not to throw it away.. heres a not trying to look cool picture... i guess.
I just dont know what to do. I think I just need to hit the gym again since I got my new job alls we sell is junk food andits all ive been eating i feel less entergetic now..
I just dont know what to do. I think I just need to hit the gym again since I got my new job alls we sell is junk food andits all ive been eating i feel less entergetic now..
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
Dress for "who you want to be". You want to be a "Cowboy" dress as one. You want to be a "Banker", suit time!! A "DJ", check out LL Cool J (or whoever, give me a break, I'm oooooold).
That's the advice given about jobs also. If you want to be the CEO, dress like him, not the mail room clerk!
That's the advice given about jobs also. If you want to be the CEO, dress like him, not the mail room clerk!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.