Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tired of my style help

hungry_american

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Im bored with my style what do you guys suggest... i was thinking AE or Abercrombie orrr hollister but i kinda dont like the look of their stuff i normaly just stick to Tshirts and trackjackets like oniel and hurley


:confused: :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jake-inator

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nice teddy bear :D

You look like ur trying REALLY hard to look cool. I see more of a problem in that than your clothes.
 

i am me

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/\awwww wuts his name? hahaha (its alrite, I'm real sentimental with my kid sh*t too:D )
 

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haha that bear was from an ex and i re oginized my room and set it there debating wether or not to throw it away.. heres a not trying to look cool picture... i guess.




I just dont know what to do. I think I just need to hit the gym again since I got my new job alls we sell is junk food andits all ive been eating i feel less entergetic now..
 

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Dress for "who you want to be". You want to be a "Cowboy" dress as one. You want to be a "Banker", suit time!! A "DJ", check out LL Cool J (or whoever, give me a break, I'm oooooold).

That's the advice given about jobs also. If you want to be the CEO, dress like him, not the mail room clerk!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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