"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tips for raising confidence during dry spell

Meisterman

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with me it's usually all or nothing. had great success with girls in past, focusing on more on personal goals and fitness lately but seen girls out in public show signs of attraction but usually customers at work, co-workers (don't sh*t where you eat), moderate success on tinder, etc. just not many closes and it sucks. what do you guys do to break the ice during a dry spell to get the ball rolling again?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When you are happy with your life's trajectory, getting laid by one or more women will have zero impact, positive or negative.

I would say find the true root of your embattled confidence, which has nothing to do with not getting women. What your feeling is a symptom of emptiness, a gaping void that can only be fixed by you. Focus on the internal problem and the women problem will take care of itself.
 

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Dry spell is universe saying focus on you.
So I do monk mode during dry spell..

Gym every day, meal prep, books over t.v, maintain immaculately clean and oganized house,
Eight hours of sleep, attention to personal hygeine maybe, new cologne, haircut..
Few new wardrobe pieces.. Etc etc
 
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