"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tips for raising confidence during dry spell

Meisterman

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with me it's usually all or nothing. had great success with girls in past, focusing on more on personal goals and fitness lately but seen girls out in public show signs of attraction but usually customers at work, co-workers (don't sh*t where you eat), moderate success on tinder, etc. just not many closes and it sucks. what do you guys do to break the ice during a dry spell to get the ball rolling again?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roober

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When you are happy with your life's trajectory, getting laid by one or more women will have zero impact, positive or negative.

I would say find the true root of your embattled confidence, which has nothing to do with not getting women. What your feeling is a symptom of emptiness, a gaping void that can only be fixed by you. Focus on the internal problem and the women problem will take care of itself.
 

cola

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Dry spell is universe saying focus on you.
So I do monk mode during dry spell..

Gym every day, meal prep, books over t.v, maintain immaculately clean and oganized house,
Eight hours of sleep, attention to personal hygeine maybe, new cologne, haircut..
Few new wardrobe pieces.. Etc etc
 
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