"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tips for raising confidence during dry spell

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with me it's usually all or nothing. had great success with girls in past, focusing on more on personal goals and fitness lately but seen girls out in public show signs of attraction but usually customers at work, co-workers (don't sh*t where you eat), moderate success on tinder, etc. just not many closes and it sucks. what do you guys do to break the ice during a dry spell to get the ball rolling again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When you are happy with your life's trajectory, getting laid by one or more women will have zero impact, positive or negative.

I would say find the true root of your embattled confidence, which has nothing to do with not getting women. What your feeling is a symptom of emptiness, a gaping void that can only be fixed by you. Focus on the internal problem and the women problem will take care of itself.
 
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Dry spell is universe saying focus on you.
So I do monk mode during dry spell..

Gym every day, meal prep, books over t.v, maintain immaculately clean and oganized house,
Eight hours of sleep, attention to personal hygeine maybe, new cologne, haircut..
Few new wardrobe pieces.. Etc etc
 
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