"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tips for Isolating

ntdawg

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Okay we all know the drill. Your in a bar eye contact is exchanged you approach you get along well she is displaying signs of high interest you want to go for the close but need to get her away from her **** blocking friends.

Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.

Give some good examples if you have any. Particularly if they are funny.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrRuckus

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ntdawg said:
Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.

Fart a really smelly one then when everyone is clearing the room stop her and give her a gas mask.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, you have to be accepted by the pack before attempting to steal away one of their cubs.
 

Thomas94305

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Agree with Francisco..

Heard elsewhere .. when opening a group of people, first ignore your target, and open the alpha woman there. She'll be the one the others look at the most, the one who says "let's go over here", and the group follows, etc. If it's mixed, guys and gals, then open the guys.

We don't always get that chance.. we talk/dance with someone alone, and THEN find she's in a group. Don't panic. Just act totally natural, and sociable about chatting up the group. I've tried brief comments to the group, then isolating. That just announces "a possible threat has arrived", but doesn't go on to establish group rapport. What works best is to hang with the group, chat up a little, until they relax some around you.

I haven't heard funny ways to isolate after that. But you can try asking her to dance, or say to the group you wanted to chat with her a moment and then bring her back, or just ask her aside for a bit. Use your judgment as to what's best. I've heard someone say to a group "I like this girl, can I borrow her for a moment?" He had group rapport, so they said "Sure".
 
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