"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tips for Isolating

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ntdawg

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Okay we all know the drill. Your in a bar eye contact is exchanged you approach you get along well she is displaying signs of high interest you want to go for the close but need to get her away from her **** blocking friends.

Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.

Give some good examples if you have any. Particularly if they are funny.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrRuckus

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ntdawg said:
Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.
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Fart a really smelly one then when everyone is clearing the room stop her and give her a gas mask.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, you have to be accepted by the pack before attempting to steal away one of their cubs.
 
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Agree with Francisco..

Heard elsewhere .. when opening a group of people, first ignore your target, and open the alpha woman there. She'll be the one the others look at the most, the one who says "let's go over here", and the group follows, etc. If it's mixed, guys and gals, then open the guys.

We don't always get that chance.. we talk/dance with someone alone, and THEN find she's in a group. Don't panic. Just act totally natural, and sociable about chatting up the group. I've tried brief comments to the group, then isolating. That just announces "a possible threat has arrived", but doesn't go on to establish group rapport. What works best is to hang with the group, chat up a little, until they relax some around you.

I haven't heard funny ways to isolate after that. But you can try asking her to dance, or say to the group you wanted to chat with her a moment and then bring her back, or just ask her aside for a bit. Use your judgment as to what's best. I've heard someone say to a group "I like this girl, can I borrow her for a moment?" He had group rapport, so they said "Sure".
 
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