"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tips for Isolating

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ntdawg

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Okay we all know the drill. Your in a bar eye contact is exchanged you approach you get along well she is displaying signs of high interest you want to go for the close but need to get her away from her **** blocking friends.

Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.

Give some good examples if you have any. Particularly if they are funny.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ntdawg said:
Has anyone got any suave, different and interesting isolation techniques that they would like to share with the community.
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Fart a really smelly one then when everyone is clearing the room stop her and give her a gas mask.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, you have to be accepted by the pack before attempting to steal away one of their cubs.
 
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Agree with Francisco..

Heard elsewhere .. when opening a group of people, first ignore your target, and open the alpha woman there. She'll be the one the others look at the most, the one who says "let's go over here", and the group follows, etc. If it's mixed, guys and gals, then open the guys.

We don't always get that chance.. we talk/dance with someone alone, and THEN find she's in a group. Don't panic. Just act totally natural, and sociable about chatting up the group. I've tried brief comments to the group, then isolating. That just announces "a possible threat has arrived", but doesn't go on to establish group rapport. What works best is to hang with the group, chat up a little, until they relax some around you.

I haven't heard funny ways to isolate after that. But you can try asking her to dance, or say to the group you wanted to chat with her a moment and then bring her back, or just ask her aside for a bit. Use your judgment as to what's best. I've heard someone say to a group "I like this girl, can I borrow her for a moment?" He had group rapport, so they said "Sure".
 
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