"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips for getting ABS??

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Can anyone give me any tips for getting a six-pack of abs?

I goto the gym a lot and my arms/legs are fairly big, but abs are the one part of my body I need to work on more.

What are some tips? I know what you eat is very important, and so are sit-ups/carido. But what are some other tips/advice?

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm&Style

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lower you b.f.%, no matter how many sit ups, crunches you do, you wont see that six pack till the flab is gone.
 

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abs have very little correlation with muscle. charm is right when he says it depends on BF% it's all about diet

a famous quote in my other h&f forum is:

"abs are made in the kitchen"
 
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I don't have much body fat at all, but I eat A LOT (steak, chicken, pasta, fish, you name it)! My mother always said "I eat like a horse".

I eat a lot of high-protein foods to build muscle after work-outs, but my gut is gradually getting bigger.

Maybe I should cut down on beer too???
 
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if you are eating more calories than you are expending, you will gain weight, depending on how clean the food you eat is, you may gain a little pudge.

you can't reduce fat, and gain lean muscle at the same time, bulk now, then cut. don't worry so much about abs, if you lift huge, your metabolism will take care of them for you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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and how do you know your bf%?

calipers? tank? mirror? or electronic?
 

spesmilitis

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Make abs bigger. Weighted decline sit ups with good form (no bending back).
 

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I don't understand :confused: . Because i actually am really skinny. I haven't measured my BF% , but i have really skinny arms/legs/wrists and have been skinny all my life. People have even told me I'm skinny. But whenever i tense my abs you can just slightly see a 4 pack, so it must mean I've got weak abs right? So i wouldn't have to lower my body fat, just do some ab exercises to make them stronger and stick out more? I mean all my fat can't just be concentrated around my abdominal area, and leave other parts of my body literally fat less.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Warboss Alex

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No, you simply need to build your abs.. you can be sub10% bodyfat and still have poor abs simply because they're not developed enough to show. See Spesmilitis' post.
 

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Yeah i was slightly confused because people are always saying the only way you can get your abs to show is by losing BF, cheers anyway.
 

Warboss Alex

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Yeah, that IS the way to get your abs to show.. but it doesn't work if you have no abs in the first place.
 
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