"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tips for getting ABS??

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Bud_Fox

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Can anyone give me any tips for getting a six-pack of abs?

I goto the gym a lot and my arms/legs are fairly big, but abs are the one part of my body I need to work on more.

What are some tips? I know what you eat is very important, and so are sit-ups/carido. But what are some other tips/advice?

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charm&Style

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lower you b.f.%, no matter how many sit ups, crunches you do, you wont see that six pack till the flab is gone.
 

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abs have very little correlation with muscle. charm is right when he says it depends on BF% it's all about diet

a famous quote in my other h&f forum is:

"abs are made in the kitchen"
 
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I don't have much body fat at all, but I eat A LOT (steak, chicken, pasta, fish, you name it)! My mother always said "I eat like a horse".

I eat a lot of high-protein foods to build muscle after work-outs, but my gut is gradually getting bigger.

Maybe I should cut down on beer too???
 
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if you are eating more calories than you are expending, you will gain weight, depending on how clean the food you eat is, you may gain a little pudge.

you can't reduce fat, and gain lean muscle at the same time, bulk now, then cut. don't worry so much about abs, if you lift huge, your metabolism will take care of them for you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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::xander::

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and how do you know your bf%?

calipers? tank? mirror? or electronic?
 

spesmilitis

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Make abs bigger. Weighted decline sit ups with good form (no bending back).
 

yungahdubz

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I don't understand :confused: . Because i actually am really skinny. I haven't measured my BF% , but i have really skinny arms/legs/wrists and have been skinny all my life. People have even told me I'm skinny. But whenever i tense my abs you can just slightly see a 4 pack, so it must mean I've got weak abs right? So i wouldn't have to lower my body fat, just do some ab exercises to make them stronger and stick out more? I mean all my fat can't just be concentrated around my abdominal area, and leave other parts of my body literally fat less.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warboss Alex

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No, you simply need to build your abs.. you can be sub10% bodyfat and still have poor abs simply because they're not developed enough to show. See Spesmilitis' post.
 

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Yeah i was slightly confused because people are always saying the only way you can get your abs to show is by losing BF, cheers anyway.
 

Warboss Alex

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Yeah, that IS the way to get your abs to show.. but it doesn't work if you have no abs in the first place.
 
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