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Tips for gettin' laid in College? Places to isolate? Just say what u think
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it'sPerry said:hey WC2, i read your post...it was great, very inspiring. what leadership book would you recommend though?
Man I wish you went to my school, dude. You sound like you would be an awesome advisor.princeofpersia420 said:some tips for getting laid in college:
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
thanks ill look into thoseWC2 said:If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it's
"The Leadership Moment" by Useem
or
"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
The latter is less about leadership and more how to handle work/life/stresses.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.