lokariototal
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Tips for gettin' laid in College? Places to isolate? Just say what u think
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tips for gettin' laid in college?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WC2
Master Don Juan
I was going to write up something on meeting people, but I forgot I wrote something up on it awhile ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158992
Just 1 aspect of college, but definitely the most important. If there's anything I've learned through college, it's that you're not just going there to get an education; you're going there to network and make friends that you will have through life. That, I think is more important than the actual education (in most cases, not all).
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158992
Just 1 aspect of college, but definitely the most important. If there's anything I've learned through college, it's that you're not just going there to get an education; you're going there to network and make friends that you will have through life. That, I think is more important than the actual education (in most cases, not all).
The Piano Master
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Just join as many social networks as possible. The more people you know, the more new girls you get.
scrouds
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Work out with your roommate a signal to let him know not to come in. A nice discrete one I used was a small piece of scotch tape over the key hole. Discrete yet when he went to unlock the door it would be obvious.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WC2
Master Don Juan
If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it'sPerry said:hey WC2, i read your post...it was great, very inspiring. what leadership book would you recommend though?
"The Leadership Moment" by Useem
or
"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
The latter is less about leadership and more how to handle work/life/stresses.
princeofpersia420
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some tips for getting laid in college:
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
Just a Shot Away
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Man I wish you went to my school, dude. You sound like you would be an awesome advisor.princeofpersia420 said:some tips for getting laid in college:
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
thanks ill look into thoseWC2 said:If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it's
"The Leadership Moment" by Useem
or
"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
The latter is less about leadership and more how to handle work/life/stresses.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
if your not getting laid in college your not gonna get laid anywhere...thats how easy it is ...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.