lokariototal
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Tips for gettin' laid in College? Places to isolate? Just say what u think
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
tips for gettin' laid in college?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WC2
Master Don Juan
I was going to write up something on meeting people, but I forgot I wrote something up on it awhile ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158992
Just 1 aspect of college, but definitely the most important. If there's anything I've learned through college, it's that you're not just going there to get an education; you're going there to network and make friends that you will have through life. That, I think is more important than the actual education (in most cases, not all).
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158992
Just 1 aspect of college, but definitely the most important. If there's anything I've learned through college, it's that you're not just going there to get an education; you're going there to network and make friends that you will have through life. That, I think is more important than the actual education (in most cases, not all).
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Just join as many social networks as possible. The more people you know, the more new girls you get.
scrouds
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Work out with your roommate a signal to let him know not to come in. A nice discrete one I used was a small piece of scotch tape over the key hole. Discrete yet when he went to unlock the door it would be obvious.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WC2
Master Don Juan
If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it'sPerry said:hey WC2, i read your post...it was great, very inspiring. what leadership book would you recommend though?
"The Leadership Moment" by Useem
or
"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
The latter is less about leadership and more how to handle work/life/stresses.
princeofpersia420
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some tips for getting laid in college:
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
Just a Shot Away
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Man I wish you went to my school, dude. You sound like you would be an awesome advisor.princeofpersia420 said:some tips for getting laid in college:
honestly, it took me almost 3 years of college to learn this, but all you have to do is go up and talk to a chick. honestly, everywhere you go theres babes, and mad cool ones (hippy/hipster types, nerdy chicks, rocker girls, whatever), and most college dudes (at my big state party school at least) are douches, scrubs, n AFC's that only hit on girls (poorly) when theyre drunk...but college girls wanna **** so hey it gets done. i dont go to parties much (anymore, how ironic) but In my experience the better places to "sarge" are around campus, student union, dining hall, etc. but ESPECIALLY in class. see a chick givin you the eye? go sit next to her next class (before class, dont like switch seats in the middle of class thatd be funny though) , real casual like, and be like whats up? im so and so. ****in, every once in awhile, make a quip, laugh at the right times, whatever. then walk n talk with her, get the digits son. be like "lets chill sometime-do you have a telephone?" with a little gleam in your eye and you're good. "make hay while you stay"
thanks ill look into thoseWC2 said:If I would recommend anything that is both entertaining and very good it's
"The Leadership Moment" by Useem
or
"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
The latter is less about leadership and more how to handle work/life/stresses.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
if your not getting laid in college your not gonna get laid anywhere...thats how easy it is ...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.