"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tips for a powerful sexy voice?

beastmaster79

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I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm using, or should be using, Sound of Your Voice by Carol Fleming.


I have heavy accent, and people usually think of me as a 'buddy'. Reducing me to that. Especially men. Women kind of like it.


This is a next thing I'm trying to improve.
 
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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
I actually work at a sports talk radio station, and I've been in radio for three or four years. I recently listened to recordings from three years ago and compared them to recordings from this summer. My voice is deeper and more resonating. In fact, it slowly transformed that way over time.

I made a conscious effort to use the resonating tones deep in my chest, rather than speak from the throat. When you're alone, work on finding the deepest, most natural part of your voice box (it sounds weird, but eventually you'll get used to it).

Also, speak slower.
 

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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
Bro you are so right about voice! I honestly think this may be my biggest problem with women and people in general. My problem is twofold: I tend to mumble instead of annunciate and when I speak, I do not project. The end result: I come across as timid sounding.

Here are a couple of things I do to work on this:

1) Speak only when you feel strongly or have great experience in something. I found that I mumbled and spoke quietly when I was not sure of myself.

2) Speak louder than you think you should. It may sound loud to you, but most likely it will be spot on perfect.

3) Speak slowly and clearly.

I am by no means an expert, but I found that these little exercises really help. People will react much better when you do these things.
 

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Oh yeah, one other thing. Diaphragmatic breathing. Learn it. It's what singers use to project their voices.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As long as you don't sound like a girl, voice is NOT a problem. BE CONFIDENT.
 
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