Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tips for a powerful sexy voice?

beastmaster79

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I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm using, or should be using, Sound of Your Voice by Carol Fleming.


I have heavy accent, and people usually think of me as a 'buddy'. Reducing me to that. Especially men. Women kind of like it.


This is a next thing I'm trying to improve.
 
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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
I actually work at a sports talk radio station, and I've been in radio for three or four years. I recently listened to recordings from three years ago and compared them to recordings from this summer. My voice is deeper and more resonating. In fact, it slowly transformed that way over time.

I made a conscious effort to use the resonating tones deep in my chest, rather than speak from the throat. When you're alone, work on finding the deepest, most natural part of your voice box (it sounds weird, but eventually you'll get used to it).

Also, speak slower.
 

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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
Bro you are so right about voice! I honestly think this may be my biggest problem with women and people in general. My problem is twofold: I tend to mumble instead of annunciate and when I speak, I do not project. The end result: I come across as timid sounding.

Here are a couple of things I do to work on this:

1) Speak only when you feel strongly or have great experience in something. I found that I mumbled and spoke quietly when I was not sure of myself.

2) Speak louder than you think you should. It may sound loud to you, but most likely it will be spot on perfect.

3) Speak slowly and clearly.

I am by no means an expert, but I found that these little exercises really help. People will react much better when you do these things.
 

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Oh yeah, one other thing. Diaphragmatic breathing. Learn it. It's what singers use to project their voices.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as you don't sound like a girl, voice is NOT a problem. BE CONFIDENT.
 
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