"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tips for a powerful sexy voice?

beastmaster79

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I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm using, or should be using, Sound of Your Voice by Carol Fleming.


I have heavy accent, and people usually think of me as a 'buddy'. Reducing me to that. Especially men. Women kind of like it.


This is a next thing I'm trying to improve.
 
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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
I actually work at a sports talk radio station, and I've been in radio for three or four years. I recently listened to recordings from three years ago and compared them to recordings from this summer. My voice is deeper and more resonating. In fact, it slowly transformed that way over time.

I made a conscious effort to use the resonating tones deep in my chest, rather than speak from the throat. When you're alone, work on finding the deepest, most natural part of your voice box (it sounds weird, but eventually you'll get used to it).

Also, speak slower.
 

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beastmaster79 said:
I'd like to develop a more masculine sexy voice. I think this is really important for dominance. Sometimes I really like my voice but when I'm tired or a little uncomfortable it can get kinda weak. I want a smooth, deep, sexy voice all the time.

Does anyone have any tips?



If anyone has found any books or other material to be particularly helpful in developing a powerful voice I'd love to hear about them too.

thanks
Bro you are so right about voice! I honestly think this may be my biggest problem with women and people in general. My problem is twofold: I tend to mumble instead of annunciate and when I speak, I do not project. The end result: I come across as timid sounding.

Here are a couple of things I do to work on this:

1) Speak only when you feel strongly or have great experience in something. I found that I mumbled and spoke quietly when I was not sure of myself.

2) Speak louder than you think you should. It may sound loud to you, but most likely it will be spot on perfect.

3) Speak slowly and clearly.

I am by no means an expert, but I found that these little exercises really help. People will react much better when you do these things.
 

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Oh yeah, one other thing. Diaphragmatic breathing. Learn it. It's what singers use to project their voices.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As long as you don't sound like a girl, voice is NOT a problem. BE CONFIDENT.
 
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