silverwex
Master Don Juan
EMPOWER YOUR TIPS!
I read a lot of tips on these boards and they really are excellent in helping you to approach that chick or gain more confidence in a variety of sitautions.
The only problem, and it's a biggy, is that while you are reading posts by Pook, Fingers, Photo1 etc is that in that exact moment while sitting in your room, on your computer, away from society and life in general you are saying to yourself:
'Wow, this is really a great post and this WILL help me with my problem in approaching girls/gaining more confidence' etc, etc...
But what happens to most of us when we finish reading, turn off the computer and leave our room/house? We tend to forget what was said and how the post can help us in the REAL world. We revert back to our AFC/normal ways and things NEVER change. We just act like we always do and never REALLY apply the excellent advice given to us.
Q: So how do I apply/remember the tips and act on the advice when in the real world?
A: Well, what I advise you to do is look up your favourite posts, the posts that give you that uplifiting feeling and make you feel good about yourself, copy them into Word, format them to fit on as little pages as possible and stick them in your back pocket, wallet, jacket, whatever (maybe even your PDA for extra privacy!).
Now, when you're in that bookshop, coffee shop, store, even the street, pub or nightclub - get away for a while (go to the bathroom, quiet place or somewhere you can take the pages out) and READ those uplifting posts.Then when you come back to the coffee shop, store ect... act upon what advice you were given and go chat that girl up, do that thing that scared you before you read that tip! The advice will be imprinted in your mind and you should be able to perform the desired action.
Q: What if I don't have 15 minutes to read those long long posts?
A: Just highlight the important bits of the post or see below...
Q: Yeah but what if I don't have enough space to carry around all those A4's?
A: Simply print out/write down the most important sayings/sentences in your chosen tip on a small piece of paper which can easily fit in your pocket/wallet.
I honestly believe that everyone on this board should use this tip as it'll make the advice more useful and realistic, as you'll be in the REAL world while reading and mentally applying the information.
Try it and see!
Hope this helps you to get that girl or do that thing you're scared of!
I read a lot of tips on these boards and they really are excellent in helping you to approach that chick or gain more confidence in a variety of sitautions.
The only problem, and it's a biggy, is that while you are reading posts by Pook, Fingers, Photo1 etc is that in that exact moment while sitting in your room, on your computer, away from society and life in general you are saying to yourself:
'Wow, this is really a great post and this WILL help me with my problem in approaching girls/gaining more confidence' etc, etc...
But what happens to most of us when we finish reading, turn off the computer and leave our room/house? We tend to forget what was said and how the post can help us in the REAL world. We revert back to our AFC/normal ways and things NEVER change. We just act like we always do and never REALLY apply the excellent advice given to us.
Q: So how do I apply/remember the tips and act on the advice when in the real world?
A: Well, what I advise you to do is look up your favourite posts, the posts that give you that uplifiting feeling and make you feel good about yourself, copy them into Word, format them to fit on as little pages as possible and stick them in your back pocket, wallet, jacket, whatever (maybe even your PDA for extra privacy!).
Now, when you're in that bookshop, coffee shop, store, even the street, pub or nightclub - get away for a while (go to the bathroom, quiet place or somewhere you can take the pages out) and READ those uplifting posts.Then when you come back to the coffee shop, store ect... act upon what advice you were given and go chat that girl up, do that thing that scared you before you read that tip! The advice will be imprinted in your mind and you should be able to perform the desired action.
Q: What if I don't have 15 minutes to read those long long posts?
A: Just highlight the important bits of the post or see below...
Q: Yeah but what if I don't have enough space to carry around all those A4's?
A: Simply print out/write down the most important sayings/sentences in your chosen tip on a small piece of paper which can easily fit in your pocket/wallet.
I honestly believe that everyone on this board should use this tip as it'll make the advice more useful and realistic, as you'll be in the REAL world while reading and mentally applying the information.
Try it and see!
Hope this helps you to get that girl or do that thing you're scared of!
