"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tip: The "I Don't Care Additude" Can Hurt!!

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we all know that, when wooing the ladies, the i dont care additude is a must have. its a mindset, not just some silly tool or stupid line. but watchout, for this additude led to the danno's downfall in his past, and it can do the same to you.

how, you ask? well, adopting a whole new mindset is a deep and changing impression on a person. it affects the decisions you make and the things you do. however, in my sad story, i took it literally. full of myself and sure of my abilities too, i began going back to AFC ways because, literally, i just didnt care. does this girl like me? i didnt care. do i look good? i didnt care. am i interesting? i didnt care.

young dj's, learn from my mistake. while IDC is an important mindset, dont take yourself too literally. remember, deep down inside, you still want pootang. you still want women. dont NEED them, but you want them. make sure to never forget your dj principles because you dont care... caring is what made you a dj in the first place!

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you interpreted it wrong. that is why you fu cked up! it's to not give a **** what she thinks...not don't give a sh1t about yourself
 
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yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
 
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That attitude is known as nihilism...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem said:
yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
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In my opinion it's fine if you care etc, just don't show it. Of course you'll eventually reach a point where you are the only motivation you use to drive and improve yourself and at that point you shouldn't really care what she thinks. My first steps towards DJism were taken while I had oneitis over this one girl, liked her so much I wanted to improve myself to be "worthy" of her.
 
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