Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tip: The "I Don't Care Additude" Can Hurt!!

dannowillbookem

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we all know that, when wooing the ladies, the i dont care additude is a must have. its a mindset, not just some silly tool or stupid line. but watchout, for this additude led to the danno's downfall in his past, and it can do the same to you.

how, you ask? well, adopting a whole new mindset is a deep and changing impression on a person. it affects the decisions you make and the things you do. however, in my sad story, i took it literally. full of myself and sure of my abilities too, i began going back to AFC ways because, literally, i just didnt care. does this girl like me? i didnt care. do i look good? i didnt care. am i interesting? i didnt care.

young dj's, learn from my mistake. while IDC is an important mindset, dont take yourself too literally. remember, deep down inside, you still want pootang. you still want women. dont NEED them, but you want them. make sure to never forget your dj principles because you dont care... caring is what made you a dj in the first place!

-danno
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you interpreted it wrong. that is why you fu cked up! it's to not give a **** what she thinks...not don't give a sh1t about yourself
 

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yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
 

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That attitude is known as nihilism...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dannowillbookem said:
yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
In my opinion it's fine if you care etc, just don't show it. Of course you'll eventually reach a point where you are the only motivation you use to drive and improve yourself and at that point you shouldn't really care what she thinks. My first steps towards DJism were taken while I had oneitis over this one girl, liked her so much I wanted to improve myself to be "worthy" of her.
 
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