“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tip: The "I Don't Care Additude" Can Hurt!!

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we all know that, when wooing the ladies, the i dont care additude is a must have. its a mindset, not just some silly tool or stupid line. but watchout, for this additude led to the danno's downfall in his past, and it can do the same to you.

how, you ask? well, adopting a whole new mindset is a deep and changing impression on a person. it affects the decisions you make and the things you do. however, in my sad story, i took it literally. full of myself and sure of my abilities too, i began going back to AFC ways because, literally, i just didnt care. does this girl like me? i didnt care. do i look good? i didnt care. am i interesting? i didnt care.

young dj's, learn from my mistake. while IDC is an important mindset, dont take yourself too literally. remember, deep down inside, you still want pootang. you still want women. dont NEED them, but you want them. make sure to never forget your dj principles because you dont care... caring is what made you a dj in the first place!

-danno
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you interpreted it wrong. that is why you fu cked up! it's to not give a **** what she thinks...not don't give a sh1t about yourself
 
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yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
 
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That attitude is known as nihilism...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem said:
yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
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In my opinion it's fine if you care etc, just don't show it. Of course you'll eventually reach a point where you are the only motivation you use to drive and improve yourself and at that point you shouldn't really care what she thinks. My first steps towards DJism were taken while I had oneitis over this one girl, liked her so much I wanted to improve myself to be "worthy" of her.
 
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