"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tip: The "I Don't Care Additude" Can Hurt!!

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we all know that, when wooing the ladies, the i dont care additude is a must have. its a mindset, not just some silly tool or stupid line. but watchout, for this additude led to the danno's downfall in his past, and it can do the same to you.

how, you ask? well, adopting a whole new mindset is a deep and changing impression on a person. it affects the decisions you make and the things you do. however, in my sad story, i took it literally. full of myself and sure of my abilities too, i began going back to AFC ways because, literally, i just didnt care. does this girl like me? i didnt care. do i look good? i didnt care. am i interesting? i didnt care.

young dj's, learn from my mistake. while IDC is an important mindset, dont take yourself too literally. remember, deep down inside, you still want pootang. you still want women. dont NEED them, but you want them. make sure to never forget your dj principles because you dont care... caring is what made you a dj in the first place!

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you interpreted it wrong. that is why you fu cked up! it's to not give a **** what she thinks...not don't give a sh1t about yourself
 
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yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
 
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That attitude is known as nihilism...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dannowillbookem said:
yes, but what she thinks is what drove me to change. if a girl thinks highly of you (in the right way), it'll lead to sex. i stopped caring what 'she' thought, and things fell apart.
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In my opinion it's fine if you care etc, just don't show it. Of course you'll eventually reach a point where you are the only motivation you use to drive and improve yourself and at that point you shouldn't really care what she thinks. My first steps towards DJism were taken while I had oneitis over this one girl, liked her so much I wanted to improve myself to be "worthy" of her.
 
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