Here is a tip that I discovered, didn't do it on purpose but it seemed to have a really positive effect in making a date go well.
Met up with a girl at a local bar for some drinks. I go there during the week a bit and sometimes chat to one of the bouncers there. So now, we recognise each other and say hi and ask how its going and stuff. Met the girl there and had a few drinks and the guy comes over to shake my hand and chit chats for a bit. We then left soon after to go somewhere else but later on, I decided I wanted to go back cos the other place was crowded. By the time we got back there, there was a big queue so I say to my date, its ok, Steve will sort us out. So I go to the front of the cue and say alright Steve, ok if we go back in? and give him a bit of a wink and he ushers us in past the queue. My date was obviously impressed after that, as if I was well known and liked around town that people would do me favours.
So get known at a bar, get friendly with the staff so they will do you the occaisional favour and take girls there for instant social proof.
Met up with a girl at a local bar for some drinks. I go there during the week a bit and sometimes chat to one of the bouncers there. So now, we recognise each other and say hi and ask how its going and stuff. Met the girl there and had a few drinks and the guy comes over to shake my hand and chit chats for a bit. We then left soon after to go somewhere else but later on, I decided I wanted to go back cos the other place was crowded. By the time we got back there, there was a big queue so I say to my date, its ok, Steve will sort us out. So I go to the front of the cue and say alright Steve, ok if we go back in? and give him a bit of a wink and he ushers us in past the queue. My date was obviously impressed after that, as if I was well known and liked around town that people would do me favours.
So get known at a bar, get friendly with the staff so they will do you the occaisional favour and take girls there for instant social proof.
