"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TIP: "I'm too old for you" response

Egyptiandude1

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It's a widespread beleif that women prefer to date older guys, and tend to stay away from younger guys, at least with the women i talk to, so i've developed a technique to help with this particular barrier, i.e...

Egyptiandude1: hey, i'm new here and wanted to get a feel of the people around, my name's Egyptiandude1!

HB10: im HB10

Egyptiandude1: so HB10, how long have you been going here?

blah blah small talk

Egyptiandude1: well HB10, you seem like a person id like to get to know better, here, write down your number and well hang out sometime

HB10: im sorry, i dont date younger guys

quick note: im still amazed to this day how they figuire "im younger" then them without asking, but by asking, it makes you look desperate and like your arguing for it, bad idea

Egyptiandude1: yeah, your right, sorry for asking grandma "or" well, you didnt seem that old, maybe it was just the distance between us "little smirk inserted at the end"

now at this point they usually give you this "wtf did you just say?!?!" typea look, then you kinda have to follow up with somethin like "now hurry up before security spots you trying to pick me up!", at this point theyll either laugh their ass off, and give you their #, or theyll reveal how much of a b*tch they really are, either way, you come out of it a winner!

i also cant stress how important it is to say this in a carefree laidback sorta way, not rehearsed, it works the best when it doesnt look rehearsed.

you can throw in your little spin on it or follow up with what might work for you, you gotta adapt a followup for different situations, the one above was used at a college campus where skool security lurk, so it was fitting.

Hope this helps
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Capi Crimini

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Be like

'thats funny cause i'm really 84, but I have a good plastic sugeon... So what are you 85-86?'

Her:'I'm sorry i don't date older men'

you:'What! so what you have to have an exact birthday now. Your so demanding. Do they have to be born in the same hospital too...'

a lot of girls have that standard. when there unver 25. thts all I can say. sorry
 

Microphone Fiend

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"It's ok I won't hold it against you"
"But i need someone to buy beers for me!"
"I didnt think u were the type of person 2 let something as trivial as age come between two people"
"Oh I know you're too old for me, i thought u you needed some help crossing the street"
"Ya I know you're too old, I want to play Doctor with you... Doctor Kavorkian"


I'd say another idea is 2 keep spitting game like she didn't say n e thing.
 

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Her: I'm too old for you.

You: It sounds to me like your measuring maturity with age, which isn't always the case. I'm not gonna sit here and talk about how mature I am, but why don't you just grab an innocent bite with me some time and we'll just see where it goes from there.

Mr. Mystery
 

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A girl who ever tells me that is not worth my time. There is no response needed. A quick laugh of pity and then walk away.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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