"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TIP: "I'm too old for you" response

Egyptiandude1

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It's a widespread beleif that women prefer to date older guys, and tend to stay away from younger guys, at least with the women i talk to, so i've developed a technique to help with this particular barrier, i.e...

Egyptiandude1: hey, i'm new here and wanted to get a feel of the people around, my name's Egyptiandude1!

HB10: im HB10

Egyptiandude1: so HB10, how long have you been going here?

blah blah small talk

Egyptiandude1: well HB10, you seem like a person id like to get to know better, here, write down your number and well hang out sometime

HB10: im sorry, i dont date younger guys

quick note: im still amazed to this day how they figuire "im younger" then them without asking, but by asking, it makes you look desperate and like your arguing for it, bad idea

Egyptiandude1: yeah, your right, sorry for asking grandma "or" well, you didnt seem that old, maybe it was just the distance between us "little smirk inserted at the end"

now at this point they usually give you this "wtf did you just say?!?!" typea look, then you kinda have to follow up with somethin like "now hurry up before security spots you trying to pick me up!", at this point theyll either laugh their ass off, and give you their #, or theyll reveal how much of a b*tch they really are, either way, you come out of it a winner!

i also cant stress how important it is to say this in a carefree laidback sorta way, not rehearsed, it works the best when it doesnt look rehearsed.

you can throw in your little spin on it or follow up with what might work for you, you gotta adapt a followup for different situations, the one above was used at a college campus where skool security lurk, so it was fitting.

Hope this helps
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Capi Crimini

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Be like

'thats funny cause i'm really 84, but I have a good plastic sugeon... So what are you 85-86?'

Her:'I'm sorry i don't date older men'

you:'What! so what you have to have an exact birthday now. Your so demanding. Do they have to be born in the same hospital too...'

a lot of girls have that standard. when there unver 25. thts all I can say. sorry
 

Microphone Fiend

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"It's ok I won't hold it against you"
"But i need someone to buy beers for me!"
"I didnt think u were the type of person 2 let something as trivial as age come between two people"
"Oh I know you're too old for me, i thought u you needed some help crossing the street"
"Ya I know you're too old, I want to play Doctor with you... Doctor Kavorkian"


I'd say another idea is 2 keep spitting game like she didn't say n e thing.
 

Mr. Mystery

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Her: I'm too old for you.

You: It sounds to me like your measuring maturity with age, which isn't always the case. I'm not gonna sit here and talk about how mature I am, but why don't you just grab an innocent bite with me some time and we'll just see where it goes from there.

Mr. Mystery
 

LikRetsam

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A girl who ever tells me that is not worth my time. There is no response needed. A quick laugh of pity and then walk away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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